Thursday, December 23, 2010

मिटा दिया.............

 
जीवन की भोर से, आज उनका नाम मिटा दिया |
जीवन की किताब से, एक और पन्ना घटा दिया |
आँखों से गिला करके, दिल को आज सूखने रखा था |
पर दुनिया वालों के डर से , दिल से उस अनजाने रिश्ते को मिटा दिया |
आज उनके तस्सबुर ने, दिल में गुदगुदी कर दी |
पर अगले ही पल, आँखों से सब कुछ बहा दिया |

Thursday, December 16, 2010

ज़िक्र..........

कल अनायास ही उनके ज़िक्र ने आँखों में पानी ला दिया |
एक दस्तक ने दिल के बंद दरवाजे को खोल के सारा सिस्टम हिला दिया |
कल रात तो शराब ने भी अपना असर करने से मना कर दिया |
रात भर उनकी यादों से एक हसीं ख्वाब बना लिया |

हमने तो ऊपर वाले से बस एक हसीं लम्हा ही माँगा था |
उसने तो एक रात में ही पुरि कायनात को जमीं पे ला दिया |
हम तो समझे थे की हम भूल गए हैं उनको |
पर उनके एक ज़िक्र ने हमारे सारे वहम को मिटा दिया |

Thursday, October 28, 2010

The race against Time

A much awaited festival for almost 2 Lakh MBA aspirants started yesterday. Since 3years I am searching for a gate of good MBA institute, but still I am on the one bank of the river CAT. This year the prep started early April, I gained a lot from the early prep. Almost got 98 percentiles in Mocks,
now at the last time it is frustrating that I am getting only 70-75 percentiles. Fuck Off !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
At the last of prep, I am getting so poor marks. If this happened on the D-day of CAT then, again History repeats itself. But I am trying my best to cope up with the situation. Although failure in Mocks in these days, I am trying to keep my moral high. One more time....you will achieve the excellent
result in CAT. These are only mocks. Do more mistakes; learn from them, because on the D-day these mistakes will lead you IIMs. Every day starts with optimistic attitude and again ends with same. But some fraction of time in day, a negative attitude shakes all the confidence. At that time, it is a fear of losing. But next time again, Heart says "Hey Boss One more time, get up & try again".  After that this positive attitude leads me to stand up again & try again.
I don't know about the result. But I am satisfied, I tried my level best. Now it's in the hand of  destiny/God to blessed me with a good result or again put me in a situation from where I will jot down new plans for career....
Tchuss...........




Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Kabhi.............

कभी हालातों से लड़ता हूँ मैं , कभी बातों से लड़ता हूँ मैं |
कभी अपने ही किये हुए वादों से लड़ता हूँ मैं |
ज़िन्दगी क हर मोर पे अपनी सांसों से लड़ता हूँ मैं |

कभी ख्यालों से लड़ता हूँ मैं, कभी जज्बातों से लड़ता हूँ मैं |
कभी तुम्हारी आँखों की गहराइयों से लड़ता हूँ मैं |
ज़िन्दगी के हर मोर पे अपनी दिल की तन्हाईयों से लड़ता हूँ मैं |

कभी रात के अधेरों से डरता हूँ मैं, कभी दिन के उजालों डरता हूँ मैं |
कभी कभी अपनी परछाइयों से डरता हूँ मैं |
ज़िन्दगी के हर मोर पे अपनी अच्छाइयों से डरता हूँ मैं |

----- ज्ञान प्रकाश |


Tuesday, September 7, 2010

The Path of Action

Today morning, I was listening "Episode # 72, 73 & 74 of The Indian Epic Serial MAHABHARATA". Instantaneously my mind clicked that Hey Boss! This is nothing but a lesson on The Path of action. I loved to watch The Mahabharata serial.
The Bhagvad Geeta is the ultimate teacher in the every front of life. It tells us the ultimate professional behavior. According to Geeta, Knowledge is superior. The ultimate aim of human kind is renunciation. But the man who doesn’t know the meaning of renunciation, how he attains it. To reject/accept anything the human should know the meaning of the element, characteristics of element and pros cons of the element. Then after he has the power to accept or reject the element. The True knowledge leads you to the right road for action. The Path of action is more important than any other thing in life.
" कर्म करो तुम ज्ञान से , श्रेष्ठ ज्ञान है धर्म , कर्म योग ही धर्म है , धर्म योग ही कर्म | "
The path of action without any expectation of result will leads you to the pinnacle. The reason is lies in the concept of focus or concentration. If you have 100 % focus on element, then you will reach on that. The moment your focus will lose and you will be diverted from your Aim. The key concept behind success is focus.
Follow the path of action and leave rest of the thing in to the hand of ALMIGHTY.

ॐ नमोह भगवते वासुदेवाय !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thursday, August 19, 2010

A Long Way To Go

सुबह की किरणों के साथ मैंने सफ़र की सुरुआत की थी,
पर ये कहाँ आ पहुंचा चलते-चलते पता भी ना चला,
अभी तो सुबह की किरणों ने धनक से अपना रंग भी न छोड़ा था,
की आँखों में एक स्याह की लकीर ने बसेरा कर लिया |
 लक्ष्य के देखकर ऐसा लगता है की कैसे पहुचूँगा मैं,
और अभी तो दुपहरी का पहर भी आना है,
कैसे अपने लक्ष्य को हासिल करूँगा मैं |

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

A CUP OF COFFEE

It was rainy Sunday evening in Kolkata. I went for a walk with my umbrella. After 10 minutes of walking, I found CAFE COFFEE DAY store near my home. I checked my purse and thanked to TCS for ACCOR Food Coupons. It was around INR 2000. A joy of happiness flowed in to my heart, that CASH will be saved. I entered CAFE COFFEE DAY and ordered my favorite Black Coffee and one grilled veg sandwich.
I opened my IPHONE and plug on the music. After a second, I went in to the thought that with in span of just 4 years after engineering, Life has been completely changed. I forgot the date when a 2 rupee tea and 2 rupee poha changed to Black coffee and veg sandwich, when INR 2K LG Mobile changed from INR 32K IPHONE. A nice phrase from the Mohabbatatein movie strikes to my heart --”Parivartan Sansar ka niyam hai". Really Life priority has been changed in these 4 years. A dream to capture a seat in IIM is constantly knocking my heart and mind. Instantaneously, I come in to reality when the song "Mehngai Dayan Khaye jaat hai" from PEEPLI LIVE movie strikes the wires of my heart. Really, the song truly depicts the current scenario of "MANGO PEOPLE". MANGO PEOPLE comprises in to every front from MILK to VEGETABLE to CEREALS. Really shame to our Government, due to their wrong policies and implementations the MANGO PEOPLE is suffering so much. A lot of stocks of food grains fed to Almighty RAT GOD, but MANGO PEOPLEs are compromising in to their basic needs for surviving. Really, I want to dedicate BULLSHIT song from KHATTA MEETHA to our Leaders. The expense of Common Wealth games are around 87000 Crores. What the Fuck is this? In the country where more than half population is living under BPL, How these ministers spent 87K Crores? Shame on the Indian people, Indian Ministers, Industrialist and every single person who is responsible for this status of our country.
The waiter came and served the HOT BLACK COFFEE and VEG SANDWICH on my table. I asked to the waiter “Hey man what is your salary and have you satisfied with it?". He smiled “Sir jeevan kat raha hai".

I smiled back and went to enjoy my coffee and sandwich.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

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Thursday, June 10, 2010

Hat's Off to Amit pandey.....

It was summer of August 2002 in Mandsaur. We were in the MIT boys Hostel room no. G12. I and my brother GV went to Room no. G10 to collect some information day to day study guidelines. We saw a boy wrapped in Cream Color Bhagalpuri Chadar. We formally introduced each other; he was Amit pandey from Patna and our EC Class mate. I thanked to God that someone in my batch is from our locality. We gathered all information from him and left the room.

I remembered the day of first semester Exam result; all peoples were celebrating their results. But Amit was going to hostel. I called him, “Hey Pandey What happened boss? How was your result?” He didn't say anything. After a moment Bhatt told me “Amit has 4 out of 5 papers back". I was shocked “how is that possible?". But Sometimes reality is bitter than fiction.
We all hostel friends in EC postponed our result party and went to pandey. We consolidated him “you will surely clear all the papers in next term yar, don't worry". But the fact is that, the matter was about to think. We said to him “All IZZ WELL Boss".
Two days passed, Amit came to our room & again we enjoyed a lot in the evening. We were happy that our dear friend Amit took these backlogs sincerely not seriously. As months passed, in next term Amit cleared all the back papers & regular papers. I thought at that time If I were in the situation of Amit, Surely I quit to the situation. But hat's off to him.
After some time, my paper has been rejected from 7-8 colleges.
Then pandey told me "Hey GP you are made for something big boss, surely your paper will be selected in top college. Don't lose hope".
I told “Is it so?". He didn't say anything.
After a week my paper got selected in BIT mesra Techfest. A real joy to me & I thanked pandey to support me. Everytime whether it was the time of job search in pune, Pandey was always beside me and my brother. He supported us as a mentor.
Yesterday my brother GV informed me that Pandey has got a seat in SCMHRD/SIIB for executive MBA. I was full joy. I congratulated pandey.
At night I was thinking about him, what a character pandey has! Really superb. He always comes from the hard ships with vibrating colors.
Dear Pandey Hat's Off to your success, & I pray to GOD “All your wishes will come true in flying colors in future."

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Management needs Hunting.....................

Hunt is one of the most optimistic words in English Vocab. Our society is such a forest, where our hunt begins from our birth. God placed all invincible armor in your chariot. Since birth you are in the wild forest to explore amours from your chariot. In childhood days, our parents help us to hunt our qualities from ourselves. Motivation is the key used to explore your hidden qualities. The face of motivation changes from chocolate to passion. But for this you need hunt your inner qualities.
The same thing applies to everywhere. Everybody has same amours in his chariot but one who learns how to use them at the right time and at the right moment reached at the top. Sometime this hunt changes from your insights to other hidden talents. When come to business, things come into big plate. You need to hunt everything from this big plate. The management is the tool which is made to explore it. The manager needs to understand the requirement of every single associate in firm and leads them for a common goal. The thing looks very simple, but it's not so. Every individual has different priorities, goals, needs and motive. Manager is the person who identifies the qualities of every single person. When the goals and needs of individual secured, then they leads to the common goal of company. But the modern age managers are failing to find the psychology of human mind. They need money from business. But they forgot that associates needs to motivate for the common goal. Associates are not like cattle. Our new managers treat peoples like slave. But they forgot that "Slaves lose everything in their chains, even the desire of escaping from them". You can't lead dead body of humans to your goals.

Dear New managers please you are paying for the hunt of invincible qualities of associates and it is not an easy job.

Friday, April 30, 2010

Talent Hunt in Yourself.......

Since 20 days, I was thinking to write something on blog. But I found lack of interest, motivation and enthusiasm. I blame conditions for the situation. First of all, I was again unable to crack a single seat in good college in MBA and then there are very little appreciations from the TCS Company with respect to salary. Although I was not taking these things seriously, but these things affected my day to day life. One day I read the article on AGNI by Dr. Devdutt Patnaik on his site, I found the problem is not with the conditions or circumstances. The problem was growing in my mind due to continuous failure to achieve my aspirations. I need to approach with a new plan, new strike & new attitude. I need to re-innovate myself as 18-19 years Gyan Prakash, with full of energy, enthusiasm and optimism. I went to basics, enjoyed every moment after that. I did what my heart said to me not mind. This discovery of 18-19 years of Gyan transforms me to better human being. I give the credit to everyone in my life that supported me in this difficult period. The articles of Dr. Devdutt Patnaik are like a medicine.
For this change, I thanked to reality shows like Indian Idol, DID and many more. Because one day, I was watching DID on Zee TV. They use the word “TALENT HUNT “for best dancer in India. The idea clicked in my mind. Next day I explore my inner self to talent hunt my undefeatable qualities. It took around 5-6 days but I achieved. As the dialogue of CCTC “The enemy has not any fear with your 10000 moves which you have practiced once, he has fear with your 1 move which you have practiced 10000 times."
Sometimes we need to talent hunt in you to become a new person.

Come soon with new thoughts, till then.
TCHUSS..... (GOOD bye in GERMAN)..............

Friday, March 19, 2010

Main Zindagi Ka Sath Nibhata Chala Gaya

After a month of unplesant events, today I thought to put some thing in to my blog. It's 8'o clock in the morning & I am listenng the song of CLASSIC bollywood movie Hum Dono. I am feeling it very close to my condition.

let's I discuss, what happened in this one month. First of all being on bench in IT industry is like that you have a body without soul, which i was since 2 months. But thank to the GOD that He put me in project. After that there was result of CAT. Which put me in the situation of Na Ghar Ke Na Ghat ke. What a idiot I am, I put a complete 2 years for CAT & got only 75 percentile this year. I was very angry when I saw it, but neglected it. I told to my self that ALL IZZ WELL. But ALL IZZ NOT WELL boss..I need to think about it. Why every time i face this situtaion? Am I so unlucky? I put my 100 % this year, I was damm sure that Atleast I will crack CAT with 90 %. But when Result came I fussed. Since 2 years I am watching the movie of my life, & I found that I failed in every front where I put my heart & soul. I failed to switch job which I desperately needed since 1 year. I failed in CAT twice, XAT, JMET so severly that any one who is preparing for these exams since 2 years, they will atleast crack these with good percentile. But my plane of dreams crashed so badly.

The situation is like that KABHI KHUD PE KABHI HALAT PE RONA AYA, BAT NIKLI TO HAR BAT PE RONA AYA. In office there is no such reward for work, A junior girl who don't know any thing about functional & technical things, she deputed as a functional person in project, senior to me.

Now I am Listening Main Zindagi Ka Sath nibhata chala gaya, Har fikra ko dhuyen me udata chala gaya. I feel the pain of this song. Really in every front, I have the same attitude. MAN KA HUA TO ACCHAA AUR NA HUA TO AUR BHI ACCHAA. But now it's enough. Why every time me for these bad lucks? Soory God asking this question? I know that When I was selected in TCS, I never questioned Why me?, When you saved my job in bloddy recession, I never Questione WHy me? and everytime when I didn't deserve the things & you put it in to plate, I didn't say Why me? but this time why I am saying this word? I know God you are feeling very angry over me that I am very selfish person. But you know, I am sequentially failing. Every second I change my gameplan of life. Some time thinking about to switch jobs, then some time to keep my self alive in Job, some time for better future career switch my self to MBA exams. I am tired boss, Please help me to figure out where I will put my self for good life. I haven't any option, again this year I will prepare for MBA & put my 100%. Please God come to me & told me that What is my mistake? Is everytime the dedication from my side is Below Par Line? Whether my preparations are not up to the mark? whether I am not having those line in to my hand to achieve, what I want? So that I will head myself to the things where I will get success.

But no problem boss,I know that I will surely bounce back. I will overcome these hardships again. But how & when I don't know. But I will....

I have the the courage to fight with the situation, to walk across the faliures...& I won't let me back in the mid way of the journey, I will complete it.......That's my indomitable Spirit....................

Lakshya Ko Har Hal Me Pana hai.........

Monday, February 15, 2010

Exploitation of Democracy in India is leading to Dictatorship

The Democracy system in India is not so old like US & Britain. But the Indian democratic system is most respectable & admirable. It had left a mile stone in world by integrating many religions,regions & language by this democratic tool. Languages changes with in every 200 Km average from bhojpuri to banglali, bangali to oriya, oriya to telugu & many more. Everyone has different cultures, religions & even GODS also. I read an article on constitution. How it made? & In what conditions it has been implemented? Almost 6 decades back, I found that people were very intelligent, visionary & qualified in their areas. But they lack in one thing, that is in patriotism. They had made a well documented scripture but lack in practicality. They made visions for economics, reservations & many more things. But What I feel that instead of Secularism & Reservation in to the Indian Constitution If they had implemented Nationalism & Protection respectively. I think by Nationalism & Protection for Ecvonomic backward classes, the problem of Secularism & Reservation solve easily.

Now days with in 100 Km our The Great Leaders want States. If they don't get approval from Government, then they went for so called Satyagrah,Bhukh Hartal & many more things. Our leaders learned only one thing from past independence movement, that is Satygrah,Bhukh hartal, Band. They didn't learn patriotism,sacrifice & service. Some people are on the way of Kranti like Bhagat singh, Azad, Bose & manymore. They beat peoples on the charge of race, religion & region.

Almost 230 National political parties are fighting for election. So how one party will get Majority? Lets take a example, congres divided in to NCP, TMC & many more. Janta Dal divided into BJP,JDU,RJD LJP & many more. now what happened they fight elections against each other, but for forming Government they collide again with conditions. They demanded money, position & many more things for supporting each other.

Because, our constitution is giving permission to exploit it. I feel that the constitution comittee made it for common people. But bureaucrats & Leaders are exception from this. Now These leaders exploited the democracy sytem at avalanche point.

If the condition is same in near future, surely in future our Democracy is heading toward Dictatorship. Some one like Parvez mussarf will command our whole Government System in his hand & work like Mugal Emperors.

Let's pray to GOD to save our country democracy. Which the only thing left in our hand, by the Grace of our THE GREAT LEADERS & Their VISIONARY IDEAS........

Thursday, January 28, 2010

The league of Man Vs Machine....

Once in the winter of january'10, I was on the evening walk with my father. We discussed about the facilities provided by the machine to human kind. Is this in right way or not?

After some time, when I was free from all the daily activities & duties. I thought about that. I thought that really the concept of MATRIX will be achieved by human in the near future. As we people found ourself depend up on the machines for our day to day works. Whether it will be shaving, reading, writing,coffe from machine, computer & many more thing. Have you thought that now a days it is not necessary in the accounting that you should use your human mind for basic calculation, even calculator is rapidly replacing by Computer Software programs. When I was using Windows 7, I found that it's very nice to work on this & very easy. Most of the things have been so well programmed & you will acces them as a spoon feed. Just like take a case of MSWORD, you write some thing wron on that, The MS word will inform you about that at that moment. You need not be bother about continous checking process. The feature is very nice. But have you imagine that the tendency of getting everything in the plate is decreasing our tought process. Machine is used for solving the difficulty of work, but just imagine it in vast asoect. you find that it is making us more depend on machine.

Some great programmers,engineers, technicians work together to automate all the daily routine work of human life in programs. The mass of people using those thing easily. Have you hear the danger at your door? In future The MATRIX will be fulfilled. Some handful of human species who will develop these softwares, they have only mind & Machine will rule on the human with their intelligence (provided by human). That's will be the age of MACHINE.......I think this is the cycle of universe that every species has time to rule on the earth. Just like Dinosour age to human age. I think next age of eatrh will be MACHINE age..........

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

इन्द्र कऽ कुर्सी फिर से डोलल।।

इन्द्र कऽ कुर्सी फिर से डोलल।।

स्वर्ग में मचल बा हाहाकार सब केहु हो जा खबरदार,
का भईल कऽऽ शोर बा मचल इन्द्र कऽ कुर्सी फिर से डोलल।।

का देवी देवता अऊर का देव गुरु सबही बा घबराईल
सबकर एक ही मंत्रणा आखिर ई आफत कहाँ से आइल,
केहु कऽ भी दिमाग नाही चलल इन्द्र कऽ कुर्सी फिर से डोलल।।

काऽ होइ काऽ होइ के बीच यमराज कऽ इक दूत आइल
साथ में इक मृतआत्मा के देख सबकर दिमाग चकराईल,
सब देखे लागल एक दुसरा कऽऽ शकल इन्द्र कऽ कुर्सी फिर से डोलल।।

बाअदब बामुलाहिजा़ होशियार कहके यमदूत सुनवले यम संदेश
एकरा चक्कर में नर्क में आइल आफत एहिसे ब्रह्माजी दिहले आदेश,
स्वर्ग में ही सत्ता कऽ हो सकेला बदल इन्द्र कऽ कुर्सी फिर से डोलल।।

सत्ता के लालची नेता के देख ऊँहा मच गईल तहलका
अइसन स्थिति फिर ना आवे कोई उपाय करे के होई पक्का,
नया नियम के सिवा रास्ता ना बचल इन्द्र कऽ कुर्सी फिर से डोलल।।

स्वर्ग और नर्क में कउनो भी नेता कऽ आवागमन हो गइल निषेध
अब मरते ही तुरन्त पुनर्जन्म देबे कऽ पारित हो गइल आदेश,
ना रहिहैं साँप ना होई लाठी कऽ दखल इन्द्र कऽ कुर्सी फिर से डोलल।।

By ABHAY KRISHNA...

Extracted from -- http://www.bhojpatra.net

याद आवेला

अमवा के पेड़वा पर झुलुआ झुलैया के याद आवेला,
गरमी के दिनवा में नानी के गऊँआ के याद आवेला।।

धूल भरल ट्रेफिक में गऊँआ के टमटम के याद आवेला,
आफिस के खिचखिच में मस्ती भरल दिनवा के याद आवेला।
दोस्तन के झूठिया देख माई से झूठिया बोलल याद आवेला,
प्रदूषण भरल पनिया देख तलवा तलैया के याद आवेला।।
गरमी के दिनवा में.......।।

ब्रेड बटर के देखत ही मकुनी अऊर चोखा के याद आवेला,
कोल्ड ड्रिंक के केलोरी में छाछ और पन्ना के याद आवेला।
फास्ट फूडन के दुनिया में सतुआ-चबेना के याद आवेला,
अश्लील भईल सिनेमा से कठपुतली के नचवा के याद आवेला।।
गरमी के दिनवा में.......।।

बीबी के होटल बाजी से माई के खनवा के याद आवेला,
मतलबी पटीदारन में जानवर के वफादारी के ञाद आवेला।
दारुबाजन के हुड़दंगई में भंगिया के मस्ती के याद आवेला,
पुलिसियन के रौब देख रावण अहिरावण के याद आवेला।।
गरमी के दिनवा में.......।।

भ्रष्टाचारी के मनसा देख सुरसा के मुँहवा के याद आवेला,
नेताजी के करनी से गिरगिटया के रंग बदलल याद आवेला।
बेईमान भरल दुनिया में आपन बेईमानी के याद आवेला,
ना होए पुनर्जन्म अब तऽ बस अंतिम समइया के याद आवेला।।
गरमी के दिनवा में.......।।

अमवा के पेड़वा पर झुलुआ झुलैया के याद आवेला,
गरमी के दिनवा में नानी के गऊँआ के याद आवेला।।

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Saturday, January 9, 2010

Change in the Education system in India..........

Today in morning when I read TOI editorial on 3 idiots by Shiv Svaminathan. It is basically pointing towards the education system in India. Since morning, I am thinking on the issue on Is it right to change the basic structure of education in India?

As most people appreciated 3 Idiots on the treatment of the subject. I also did the same thing. It's really nice approach that people will follow for their heart & do whatever he wants. people should follow their heart. If sachin will not followed his heart, I think He won't be in top of cricket world. If you carefully watch the 3 idiots, you know that they were telling for excellence. The character of Amir khan has no fear of losing. He has only thing in mind that he has to excel. But once you place yourself in the platform of middle class family, Where 2 of your sisters are on the verge of marriage, father has been retired or he will retire after some time, you saw your parents to sacrifice their wishes every single second. Whether you should have the same attitude toward life for excel? I think if most of the people will think about this & when ask the question to himself. I surely know the every middle class person has got same answer that, leave the excel in the garbage & do everything which will give you a good job & money. One more thing there are exceptions in society so I am not talking about them. I am talking generally.
I will give one live example of my life for the importance of money. On 3rd of Jan'10 in evening 4:45 PM, when I am coming to kolkata from jamshedpur. I have learnt that Boss Money matters. One boy in the age of 10 years with 3 of his sisters was begging at platform. The bunch of boys, who were going to kolkata told that boy "If you will bath right now, we Will give you INR 10". I think in the month of january, when there is too much cold with wind, No one can dare to touch the cold water. But I hat's off for the boy who went to the pipes on side of Rail track & took bath. He had only one pair of clothes, So what he did he took all his cloths & took bath. I was shocked that for fulfilling the desire of Hungry Stomach, Really The Great MONEY matters.
The same thing applied to the middle class family, When you have such a responsibility then Only matters "The Money". Because It will fill the hungry stomach of your & your family. It will give the better living styles to your family, Good husband to your sister.

The structure of our society is like that we can't escape from the world. I remembered my engineering days, When I saw my parents for sacrificing their wishes for the study of me & my brother. My father was a worker in TATA Motors, not big salary, but enough for the member of 4 to live a good living style in society & save some money for our bad times & future projects. I saw my mother to wore a pair of cotton sari in home & save the average ones of some functions. I saw my father to go to office in the mercury of 51 degree celcius in the month of may/june with the Bi-cycle. To save a little 5 rs cost of petrol, to give a better education. I really appreciate my parents to teach me to save money. Since my engineering days, we both brothers got only INR 400-600 for our expenses apart from mess & other. But we both managed to live their life simply. One more thing we all the 4 members had only cut in our expenses in cloths, entertainment,living style. We follow simple life for 4 years. But on the food front we didn't compromised. we ate healthy food. So When I was in college for 1st year we want to follow the style of excellence in education. But we achieved a marks around 60-65%, not more than that. Then we realised that, If we will follow this style, Then we will miss our scholar ship amount of INR 20,000 a year & most of the companies had criteria of the minimum marks for qualify. We couldn't clear that. So we followed for getting marks & left excel. After engineering, we both got handsome jobs in the IT industry. We compromised with Heart. But we achieved the peace of our family on every front.
One more thing is here that, If you follow the discipline life & do the work, Then automatically you got interest in that thing. Because everything needs time to settle. We all bored quickly from the monotonous activity. whether we should leave everything & do new every time? I think not. We should make a path to do things in the intervals. There is always a path between two opposite things, which is called a thin line where you will balance on both of them.

I think we should change a little bit in our attitude & walk on the thin line to balance between excellence & to fulfill our materialistic wishes.
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